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The Dating Director’s “Role of a Lifetime: How to Star in Your Own Love Story” is changing the way men and women act and speak so they can have healthier, more intimate, more romantic relationships.

Here are what women and men around the world are saying…

“I Found Her! Using Cherry’s Direction & Workshop I Landed the Woman for Me!”

“The biggest benefit I received from the Hollywood Dating Director is the understanding of masculine and feminine energies and how they show up in relationships. This is important, for to create the relationship you want, you need to powerfully stand in the energy you choose. This takes some work…and searching. I ‘duty dated’ more than my share of women. But I had a mission, a focus and drive to find the woman who desired a masculine man. And I found her! Through Cherry’s direction and workshop, I landed the woman for me. Without the skills learned from the dating director, I would still be searching and wondering why there is no ‘chemistry.’ The dating director taught me what chemistry really is and how to create it under my terms.”

Peter Catalano, Wealth Manager, Austin, TX
“I Tweaked How I Interact with Men And the Results Are AMAZING!”

“I’ve read many books on dating, but for the first time I get it! Your course opened my eyes to why my actions weren’t generating the results I wanted. By learning and practicing new skills in a safe and fun setting, I have tweaked how I interact with men and the results are amazing!”

LeeAnn Webster, Mayer Brown LLP, Chicago, IL

“Finally, I Attracted My Feminine Partner!”

“I was on the fence feeling an internal pressure to act more feminine in romantic relationships. Truth is, I’m more comfortable in my masculine. Finally, my masculine role has set in and I’ve attracted my feminine partner. Not only did I learn about my role in romantic relationships, I learned my style. Instead of falling into tense, dramatic affairs, I now know how to attract and connect with women who compliment me and balance our relationship.”

Dana Ehrlich, Realtor, Venice, CA

“My Clients are More Successful in Dating and Relating!”

“Cherry’s advice is right on! Her workshops and personal coaching help my Clients understand themselves and the opposite sex and they are more successful in dating and relating. Study with this woman!”

Julie Ferman, CupidsCoach.com

“I Never Thought I Would Turn to a Dating Director for Help But I’m Certainly Glad I Did.”

"Guys may not think they need the advice of a dating director or be too embarrassed to ask, but, trust me, Cherry gave me honest, straightforward answers to my questions. She was especially helpful in letting me know how much of my personal and past history I should give to a woman and when (and when not) to do so. Everyone brings baggage into a relationship and Cherry pointed out to me the importance of both the right amount of discretion and the right amount of disclosure. I never thought I would turn to a dating director for help but I am certainly glad I did!"

Chuck Franklin, actor, Los Angeles, California

“I Have a New Perspective Toward Men and I’m Loving It!”

“Studying with Cherry has given me a new lease on life. I feel so much comfortable and secure dating. I have a new perspective toward men and am loving it!”

Gerry Wells, Producer, Snow Productions, Los Angeles, CA

“Cherry’s Clear-Headed Direction Showed Me My Boyfriend Was Not What I was Looking for And I was Better Off Without Him.”

“It was Cherry’s clear-headed direction that showed me my boyfriend was not what I was looking for and I was better off without him. Now, I feel I’ve been saved from a huge mistake. Had I not followed her direction and faced the truth about his man, I would have remained unhappy and unsatisfied in the paltry life-deal he offered.”

Kathryn Bild, author & songwriter, New York City, NY

“DUTY DATING Serves Me Well in My Dating Life”

"I saw ‘Duty Dating’ at a screening and found it enlightening, entertaining and a whole lot of fun. It gave me a new slant on relationships that has served me well in my dating life. In addition, I've known Cherry for a few years and seen how successfully she applied the principles in her own life - so she knows what she's doing. She delivers her empowering insights about relationships with lighthearted charm and effectiveness. I highly recommend The Hollywood Dating Director, Cherry Norris as well as her products and services!"

Moira Shepard, Marina del Rey, CA

“Cherry is an Excellent Coach and Communicator.”

“I am so grateful she’s taking my work to the world through her film, DUTY DATING and as The Hollywood Dating Director.”


Dr. Patricia Allen, author “Getting to ‘I Do’,”

“Cherry’s Directions are Right On!”

“For anyone who wants to have a successful romantic relationship Cherry’s directions in ‘The Role of a Lifetime’ are Right On!”


Donna Sozio, author “Never Trust a Man in Alligator Loafers”,

“If I Had Known 1/10th of What You Taught Me Years Ago… I Would Be Married by Now”

"I appreciate all your help in my battle with my femininity. I have had years of 'being a man' and owning my own company has not made it easier. If I had known 1/10th of what you taught me years ago...I would be married by now. I thoroughly enjoy or sessions and learn something new each time...Thank you so much."

Patti Stanger, CEO, Millionaire's Club, Los Angeles, CA

"The Role of a Lifetime: How to Star in Your Own Love Story Isn't about Game Playing or Unnatural Strategies in Dating. It's about Understanding What Makes You Tick And Finding Someone Who Compliments That.”

“Unlike other ‘relationship’ seminars/books, ‘The Role of a Lifetime: How to Star in Your Own Love Story’ isn't about game playing or unnatural strategies in dating. It's about understanding what makes you tick and finding someone who compliments that. It also gives you ways to handle situations that inevitably come up with grace. I learned that in past relationships I've been competitive with men and it was the major reason for my lack of success. A masculine man doesn't want a friend…he wants a feminine, receptive woman. It's okay to be competitive and driving in the workplace but it's disastrous for a relationship. Now I’m in a successful relationship with a wonderful man thanks to Cherry’s directions!”

Misty Barnes, Author & Filmmaker, Playa del Rey, CA

“I Would Never Be In the Relationship I Enjoy Today If it Hadn’t Been For What I Learned”

“Cherry Norris is a brilliant communicator. She makes learning fun and is never at a loss to make a confusing situation clear. I would never be in the relationship I enjoy today if it hadn't been for what I learned in Cherry's workshop. I'm reaping rewards and so is my boyfriend!”

Kaja Fehr, Academy Award Nominated Editor,
Marina del Rey, LA

“I Use What I Learned in My Dating Life and It REALLY Works!”

“‘The Role of a Lifetime’ really changed my way of thinking. It was so helpful not only to get the information, but also to have the opportunity to role-play through exercises, while receiving direction. I was surprised how ingrained certain behaviors are, and how helpful it was to have someone point them out, while I was in the process of doing it! Since you don't get that advantage when you are on an actual date—it was invaluable to have the opportunity to try things out in a safe environment. You can read all the books you want, but there is no substitute for just doing it and learning from the experience. I use the information and apply it to my dating life—and it really works! I am still looking for the "one" but I have found it so much easier to walk away from the ones who are not right for me, while having complete faith that the right one is coming down the track soon. Thank you.

Laurie Young, Los Angeles, CA

“I Learned What to Do and What Not to Do To Have the Relationship I Want”

“I learned so much from The Hollywood Dating Director. I learned why my relationships were not working, what I was doing wrong. Cherry has a keen sense of what to do and what NOT to do to have the relationship that I want and is SO supportive along the way. She is so needed in this world of relationships. She is a truly a North Star!!”

Patti Miller, Make-up artist, Santa Monica, CA

“The Role of a Lifetime Allows You to Create Your Part & Follow Your Heart with Truth”

“I’ve been in Hollywood as an actor for over 20 years and Cherry’s system resonates and intrigues me. With a good script and a great role to play, you’ll always be okay if you create your part and follow your heart with truth. Now I’m a radio host who interviews guests….and dates. Wanting to learn more about the art of femininity, Cherry’s best dating direction for me is when I’m on a date, act the role of the ‘guest’ instead of the ‘host’! How simple and effective! Cherry is an incredible, dynamic woman with so much to share. I highly recommend her system to anyone looking for love in their life!”

Kristin MacDonald, Radio Host, Beverly Hills, CA

“Cherry’s Direction is Very Clear”

“Cherry is authentic because she’s been through this process of learning how to have a relationship herself. Dating can be very confusing and Cherry’s direction is very clear. People resonate with her work.”

Donna Johansen, Artist & Healer, Laguna, CA

“I Am Closer to Having the Healthy Romantic Relationship I Want Thanks to You!”

“Without your course and guidance I would have handled the situation with my boyfriend quite differently. I made the decision to listen and be thankful when he calls. I learned not to put his feelings before mine. I will not engage when he is drinking and will leave before I respond. I am one step closer to having the healthy romantic relationship I want thanks to you!”

Jake Dynnis, Playa del Rey, CA

“My Boyfriend and I Have Been Together for 18 Years with Cherry’s Words of Wisdom”

“My boyfriend and I have been together for over 18 years and Cherry's words of wisdom have been with me every step of the way - through the highs and lows. There are many things I admire about her, but her ability to listen intently, sort through the masses of information received from my rambling anecdotes and cut to the chase with her suggestions, observations and advice is certainly one of biggest strengths.”

Lyn Cowan, Sydney, Australia

“If I Were Single, I Would Have Cherry on Speed Dial”

“Cherry is an inspiration. As one of the leading experts on dating and relationships, she practices what she preaches. I've had writing coaches and consultants in the past. It only makes sense to go to an expert for advice about the most important challenges in life: dating, relationships and marriage. If I were single, I would have Cherry on speed dial.”

Sharon Y. Cobb, Writer/Producer, Jacksonville, FL

“She Always Points Me in the Right Direction”

“Cherry is a great advisor. She always points me in the right direction when it comes to conflicts I face in my relationships. Her Role of a Lifetime system is practical, useful and offers choices that work best for any relationship.”

Julia Rodriguez, Dance Instructor, Hickman, Ca.

“Two Thumbs Way Up for The Hollywood Dating Director”

"Two thumbs way up for ‘Hollywood Dating Director’ Cherry Norris! Her wonderful film Duty Dating is used as a template for many women to help them through the perils of dating and relationships. Also, congratulations Cherry, for becoming a Certified Coach through Dr. Pat Allen’s WANT® Institute. Keep up the great work!”

Jim Hallowes, Founder of www.HighlySensitivePeople.com and Associate Director of the WANT® Institute

“Your Work is so Valuable for People Like Me …A Married Woman”

“Your work so valuable for people like me – a married woman who is still struggling to understand and maximize my relationship. I am like so many people today: married and committed but aware that every day brings a choice of choosing my relationship and my marriage. It is not a closed book but rather an evolving story where I must continue to grow and put forward actions that carry me and us in the direction I want. Your work facilitates this process. Understanding there are roles and styles of relationships allowed me to try on different concepts…kind of like trying on a hat and looking in the mirror. Is this right for me? Or this? Discovering these different styles was enlightening and allowed me to see my husband's and my interactions with a slightly different worldview - one that shed new light on what we've been doing and what we can do.

I believe that women today will require an entirely different set of skills and emotional aptitudes that they did in prior generations. Being among the first-born of the baby boomers I’ve always found myself at the beginning trend of the decade. I was a hippie, a feminist, then joined the a navel gazing therapy-me generation, followed by greedy Wall Street, then producing babies, then joining the fitness revolution. At 58, I am still on the journey and still seeking connection and well-being. Thankfully your information adds so much to my journey.


Mimi Fleischman, The Bar Method, Los Angeles, CA

“Cherry Taught Me How to Date Like a Woman”

“After my first lesson, I felt like I watched "The Mating Secrets of Humans" on Animal Planet. I didn't realize how much I didn't know about men and women in relationships…what attracts us, what repels us and how we ever get together. Cherry taught me HOW to DATE like a woman. It's a whole different perspective than what I had been doing for 20 years. I wish I had learned all this in high school. I wouldn't have been repeating the same mistakes for the last 25 years.”

Nancy W., Advertising Executive, Los Angeles CA

“I Learned so Much About Interactions Between Men and Women”

“Before The Role of a Lifetime workshop, I was in a true cloudy gloomy black fog about the nature of men and man-woman relationships. The greatest benefit was that I felt recharged for all that’s possible in romantic relationships. Cherry is an inspiration. She made a fabulous movie and met a romantic Italian man who would change everything~ what else could ever be more important! I learned so much about interactions with men and women that changed my life forever.”

Kim G., Los Angeles, CA

“I Now Have a Direction that Allows Me to Feel Safe …and Take Care of Myself”

“A big THANK YOU!!! so much for your workshop! I loved your course and found it so helpful. I made transformations within myself, my perception and view of relationships and my ability to be successful as a woman. That's no small gift or accomplishment. Now I have a direction that allows me to feel safe, which I didn't have before, so now I can re-enter this arena and know how to take care of myself. My illusion and fear was that it might have been permanently closed to me because I had no clue how to do it in a satisfying way without chaos. And all that was wrong was my lack of information, understanding and perception and lack of good role models. So, thanks for providing all of that. Love, Appreciation and Blessings!”

Linda D., Los Angeles, CA

“Your Guidance has Given Me… Confidence…Knowledge…and Skills”

“Thank you for everything your course has taught me about dating and relationships. It has been and continues to be, an explosion of the senses. Your guidance and teaching has given me the confidence to date; the knowledge of when I am being masculine and feminine and the skill set to morph in and out of it. Thank you so much for the work you do and please, please continue to do it. So many people can benefit from this work. What a beautiful world if we can be softer, more compassionate and understanding of each other.”

Dina W., Los Angeles, CA

“The Role of a Lifetime has Opened My Eyes to Different Possibilities”

“I have never had a course like this and I must say it has opened my eyes to different possibilities and new ways of approaching this most challenging arena of relationships. I especially enjoyed the part where we speculate as to how to handle various problems!”

Rebecca S., Los Angeles, CA

“I Highly Recommend Cherry’s Services”

“Really passionate on the subject, dynamic and knowledgeable, The Hollywood Dating Director is the embodiment of a great relationship coach & teacher, offering great support and tools. Simply, I highly recommend her services!”

A.T., Private Chef, Los Angeles, CA

“I’m Having So Much Fun and Learning so Much!”

“This is the most fun course I’ve ever taken in my life. I usually have a very short attention span and I just love learning so much. Thank you.”


Phyllis B., Marketing Executive, Los Angeles CA

“I’m Confident I Will Find a Partner in Life”

“Thank you for providing me with understanding, clarity and direction. Your course has given me the most valuable thing in any project or goal… the confidence that I will find a partner in life.”

L.J., M.D., Sherman Oaks, CA

“I’m Dating a Charming Lady… I Have Your Course to Thank for My Good Fortune”

“I'm enjoying real success in dating. For the first time, I'm dating a charming lady who appreciates the masculine attention I pay to her. In return, I'm rewarded with a sexual energy I've not enjoyed with anyone before. I have your course to thank for my good fortune. I consider every penny well spent, and believe the workshop has 'paid' for itself in the form of 'personal experience' currency.”

Ben A., Graphics Designer, Pasadena, CA

“The Role of a Lifetime Helped Me Have Fun Dating!”

“Dating can be intimidating, exciting, exhausting. The Role of a Lifetime course helped me sort it out and have fun. Cherry coaches with warmth, charm, insight, wit and an intimate understanding of men and women.”

Laura P., Sarasota, FL

“I Went From Zero to Dating in Just a Few Weeks!”

“Use online and group dating events for WHO to date. The Hollywood Dating Director will teach you HOW to date. I went from zero to dating in just a few weeks. This course took away all the fear and anxiety and put me in a place of power.”

Barbara H., Atlanta, GA
“I’m Having Tremendous Success in Dating”

“Dating is something everyone does, but very few people know how to do effectively. The Role of a Lifetime home study course explained the psychology and biology of men and women behind dating rituals. My definition of dating has turned upside down and now I’m having tremendous success.”

Marta C., Sacramento, CA

“I was Married in October and I am so Appreciative of What I Learned from You!”

Patti M., Rhode Island
“Not a Lifesaver, a Life Maker!”

Les B.,Financial consultant, Beverly Hills, CA

“Cherry Gave Me Invaluable Tools so Now I Have a Successful Relationship!”

Terese B., Realtor,Redondo Beach, CA
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