Archive for the Dating
“It was okay,” Dana sighed. Dana was speaking about her date. ”Nothing special. I’m not seeing him again. He’s just not what I’m looking for.” Dana means he’s not perfect. ”Not only that, I completely blew my diet. We drank wine and ate dessert.” Dana means she’s not perfect. ”I should have stayed home and worked on my presentation [...]
“He broke my heart,” cried Janet. “All I ever did was love him and give to him. Now after four years of being together he doesn’t want a committed relationship…or that’s what he says. I know he still loves me because he still wants to see me and have sex and take me on vacation.” [...]
You met him on holiday. You think he’s great. Young, handsome, charming. But he lives out of town (or country) and you are not sure how this is going to work. Your connection was great on holiday. (At least you thought it was.) He acted like he was into you. And you were a perfect lady. (You’ve [...]
You haven’t even met the guy. He found you on E-Harmony. You’ve exchanged a few emails and all of a sudden, he invites you to Vegas. Sure, you’d like to meet him. But Vegas? On a first date? Why would he do that? You don’t even know each other. Who does he think you are?!?! Well, he thinks you are [...]
You’ve experienced it a thousand times. You are in a bar or a club or at a social gathering. You meet a guy you like. He gives you his card and asks you to call. Why does he do that? Why doesn’t he just ask for your phone number and say he will call you? [...]
I felt a little guilty. True, I needed to put things in place after having the furniture removed for three weeks while our floors were being replaced, but I could have just put everything back the way it was…or had the moving company do it. Instead, I decided to recreate and redesign our space. I [...]
I’ve been bombarded lately with articles and seminars on how women can be more feminine in the workplace. This cracks me up! Why? Because work by nature requires a masculine skill set. Period. When you work, you produce. You’re active. You’re doing. You’re accomplishing things. That’s what work is. When you’re feminine, it’s all about [...]
Cindy and Sam have been dating for two years. Cindy wants an engagement ring and a wedding date. Sam wants to keep things as they are…casual dating. When Cindy confronted Sam about his long-term plan for them, Sam told her he wasn’t interested in marriage. He is, however, still interested in dating her. Cindy and [...]
After three great dates and lots of passion, Linda was sure she’d met the one. He was perfect! Attractive, attentive and all-into-her! Weeks later when she stopped hearing from him, she didn’t know WTF had gone wrong. Linda thought she was being courted by this man. Instead he was dating her. Which raises the question… [...]
How can you find a great man? Why, being a great woman, of course. Even if you’re not looking for (or have already found) a great man, you can still be a Great Woman…just interact with men the way you interact with life. 1. BE OPEN to whatever he presents. 2. BE APPRECIATIVE of Everything [...]

