Caroline is frustrated.  She’s having no success with on-line dating despite using a professional photo and despite 62 matches sent to her by an on-line dating service.  No man has initiated contact. 
 
The problem is:  Caroline wants to be the feminine energy in her romantic relationship and does not want to initiate contact, but feels that if she doesn’t, nothing will happen. 
 
What should Caroline do? 
 
What would you do?  Go ahead and initiate contact saying “hi,” or just wait (and hope) for men to contact you?
 
Here are three tips to get him to notice you on line.
 
1.  Say “Hi”
 
If you want to be the feminine energy in your romantic relationship and want your man to pursue, it is appropriate take action to let your man know you are present and interested.
 
So yes, it is appropriate to initiate contact him with a “hi” or a wink, etc. 
 
2.  Keep it short
 
As the feminine energy, you may also want to include a personal message commenting on something in his profile ie:  ”I’m a fan of the Lakers, too.” or “Your trip to Venice sounds great.”  
 
Keep it short.  Stay away from commenting on his looks or his feelings.  Keep him in a place of respect.  Do not initiate inviting him out or getting together … that’s his job.
 
3.  Be interesting
 
If you’re still feeling overlooked on-line, revisit your own profile and ask yourself, “what is my unique feature or the ‘wow’ factor?” What makes me interesting outside of my job?  What makes me memorable so my man is curious and wants to know more?
 
One of my clients, a successful businesswoman, used to play the glockenspiel.  So instead of leading with her job, her love of movies, beach walks and dinner, we rewrote her profile to highlight her talent playing an unusual musical instrument. It’s a great conversation starter when a man shows his interest!
 
What unusual or interesting talent or hobby do you have? What sets you apart from the millions of other single women on-line?  Dig deep to discover what makes you truly unique then use it.
 
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